ISO optometrist

Hello, neighbors. I am looking for a new optometrist. I have visited one who brushes off my far-sighted eyes which are getting worse, I KNOW, b/c he thinks I am too young for this to be happening. (I only look young to some.) I have visited one who let me choose frames that don't hold bifocals well…. My eyes are important b/c I am an artist... Please suggest! Thank you. -Becky